My coworkers and I had a grand old time and a lot of laughs at our recent holiday luncheon. The highlight of the afternoon was the annual gift exchange. The emcee would pull a name out of a hat and call the lucky person up front to select a wrapped gift from a very full table. Alternatively, if you coveted a gift previously selected by someone else, you could “steal” the gift away. The gifts of alcohol were extremely popular, so it was a good thing that there was a rule that a gift could be stolen only twice.
To add to the hilarity, the emcee started out by informing us that anyone who decided to steal had to either sing a holiday song or tell a joke. If this was supposed to deter the predilection for stealing bottles of vodka, gin, whiskey and champagne, it wasn’t very successful. It was a great rule, however, as the terrible singing and even worse jokes resulted in roars of laughter.
My favorite joke of the day, which the teller admitted she borrowed from her young son, referred to the streets of downtown Sacramento that are named with the letters of the alphabet.
Q: Why is it so hard living on O Street? A: Because you have to go a block to P.
What is funny about this joke, of course, is the double entendre reference to urination. You can’t really go wrong with a joke on this subject. Peeing is always funny, and comedians have been milking the topic for generations.
Before HBO and cable programming generally, you couldn’t make reference to “peeing” in the media without being accused of vulgarity. Even today, over-the-air radio and TV stations have to watch it, as the FCC has been known to impose some pretty steep fines for gratuitous mention of bodily functions. This pressure ultimately sent “shock jocks” such as Howard Stern, who appears to delight in “juvenile” humor about urination and defecation, scurrying to satellite radio.
In this day and age, references to the elimination of human waste are judged to be exceedingly mild, at least in the grand scheme of things. This makes sense in a world in which many give not a second thought to the use of the most demeaning racist and sexist slurs. It’s all relative.
For example, in the various places I’ve worked, I can’t recall ever seeing someone raise an eyebrow at an offhand description of an impending rest room break as “I gotta go potty” or “going to pee.” I admit to stifling a giggle when I see the text abbreviation ggp (“gotta go pee”). I have been lurking around online long enough to remember when this was a way of informing the mates in your chat room why you were going to be afk (away from keyboard). At any rate, I now know that you can tell a joke that refers to peeing in front of fifty of your coworkers and no noses will be wrinkled. And you can guarantee that I will be the first to laugh.
Many moons ago, I spent a couple of years working for a tiny community newspaper in New York. It was a “family newspaper,” both in the sense that the publication was owned by a family and in the more traditional sense of that phrase, meaning that it was unfailingly “G-rated.” The idea was that all members of the family, including young kids and Grandma, should be able to read the paper cover to cover without encountering any word or phrase that might be deemed offensive.
I remember how, in my college days, where I was one of the editors of the student newspaper back in the 1970s, we made a big point of thumbing our noses at this standard by taking advantage of the opportunity to print the most flagrant vulgarities in 72-point headline type on the front page. Protesters (and we protested everything back then) were quite fond of including some very colorful language in their chants, cheers and taunts. Quoting those was a convenient excuse to cuss in a big black headline.
At the staid, conservative weekly newspaper where I was employed in the composing room, however, our problem was not quoting protesters but how to, um, accurately describe the actions for which some of the local loony toonies routinely found themselves arrested. Should we print “public exposure” when really what we meant was “public urination?” I can just see some kid reading the paper when it hit local driveways every Thursday.
“Mom, what’s ‘exposure’ mean?”
“That depends on the context, dear. Usually it has to do with developing photos, like how much light hits the film. But it can also mean freezing to death, like when someone dies of exposure.”
Our family newspaper found itself in a pickle when a trucker got arrested for pulling off the road into a subdivision so he could pee in a bottle. Some kids noticed what the hapless guy was doing. Indecent exposure? Or just a garden variety case of ggp? The guy wasn’t exactly a flasher, but who knows what was in that pea brain of his? Either way, the paper couldn’t get around mentioning that unmentionable, urination. Ha-ha! The joke was on the publishers. “Serves them right for being such prudes” was my first thought as I gleefully typeset the article.
I very much like the approach that my brother-in-law’s mom always took in regard to this subject. As an elementary school teacher for years, she was no stranger to kids who casually dropped references to peeing into conversations to see what kind of reaction they would get. She would always interrupt the kid mid-sentence, interjecting “We all do it!” Never failed to steal their thunder.
One could argue that, even today, we continue to experience some discomfort at public references to elimination of bodily waste, which may explain the use of such infantilized terms as “peeing” and “pooping.” Admittedly, the liquid version seems to be a bit more acceptable than the solid one. Few would be surprised at a fellow employee referring to a “pee break,” but one who was brazen enough to say “I gotta take a dump” would likely be considered vulgar.
Whatever you do, however, be sure to keep the bathroom references off the radio and network TV. ‘Cuz the FCC’s gonna get you if you don’t watch out!
Devotees of the First Amendment need not apply. After all, freedom of speech must take a back seat to protecting the delicate ears of our eight and ten year old children.
(Cue laugh track)